Although having a sweet temper is an in-built or natural thing for a human, one can change one's temperament by altering their habits. Remember this! Life is also made and life is also destroyed. Whether one takes joy from it or faces grief through it, it all depends on oneself. There are always two directions of life. One is filled with light whereas the other is shrouded in darkness. For the selection of one of these paths one can use one's determination. If one chooses to live with a sweet temper then that can be done and if one chooses to live in depression then that can also become habitual. This means that if you wish to then you can see the bigger picture or make a habit of finding the silver lining through your determination instead of trying to find darkness. Whenever you find yourself entrapped in an inconvenient situation, it is okay to feel upset but keep hope in your heart. Believe that after some time you will escape this darkness. As long you have hope, you will see things in the light. This enlightens your mind and makes you happy however, with no hope life becomes motionless and bleak. One becomes blind to things like the blooming of flowers and the entire universe seems dead. Life itself seems desolate. With a good temper the joy of living is renewed. Someone asked a writer that how can one be relieved of greed, he answered that just make having a sweet temper your goal. Consider this the absolute cure. This is a very suitable statement because kindness and virtue cannot find a more fertile ground than this. Having a good temper maintains hope in one's heart and also balances one's desires. It is a friend of sympathy, beloved of a child and wisdom of a mother. It is also a perfect thing for improving understanding. One famous doctor/hakeem told his patient that the best cure for heart problems is having a sweet temper.